"You can find my uncle?"
"When did he die?"
"Ten years ago."
"We'll need the date and time of his death, as exact as possible."
"And then you'll be able to find him?"
"Yes, but first I have to know... this isn't some kind of revenge thing, is it?"
"No! Of course not! He was supposed to go on holiday with his kids, but he died before he could. They're grown, and since he'd be ten years old now, they thought he might like to go with them to an amusement park or something."
"Sorry, but I had to ask."