"Mama, that Ricky is picking on me again. I intend for him to die, or move away...but it never works! Teach me how," she pleaded, notebook in hand.
"Sweetie, everyone wants to affect their world...and sometimes you are legitimately wronged, and angry. Still, you can't use your energies to accomplish such negative desires. To work this magic, you need to be a conduit between the Source and the material world. If you stay above, you can't influence this realm. If you're fully here, you lack true power...and once you've Connected, you no longer WANT to do harm!"